Should We Have A First Look?
Hey guys, whenever I have a meeting with a couple about wedding photography, one of the big questions I ask them is if they will have a ‘First Look’ or not. This is important because it helps me get an idea of how the day will go, especially for photos. Here are three different options & some of my thoughts about them:
- First Look -
What is it? Believe me I still get this question during meetings & I always happily explain.
It’s when you see your future spouse before the ceremony in an intimate setting (usually just the two of you) & it’s like a surprise. Your partner gets to see you for the first time all dressed up without your entire guest list watching!
My Professional Opinion - As a photographer, there are benefits to having a First Look – I get to be up close & personal & capture all the emotions, I can easily direct you, & it makes for some really touching images. You get to have a moment to calm each other’s nerves, get some hugs & kisses in before the ceremony & just breathe. This also allows me to take photos of the two of you, the bridal party, & immediate family/friends photos BEFORE the ceremony which saves a lot of time after. I want you to be able to go & mingle with your people!
My Personal Opinion – If you or your spouse are at all introverted, a First Look is probably the way to go.
Story time! When my husband & I got married almost 20 years ago, I was set on having things traditional because that’s how we did things in my family. Looking back now, I wish I would have done a first look, but they weren’t super popular back then. We are both introverted & don’t really like to have everyone looking at us. Weird how that works when you’re getting married. Anywho, what I remember is walking out those doors having over 100 people suddenly staring at me. I felt my face get super red (we have photos to prove it), all I wanted to do was look down & get to the front where he was waiting. I didn’t even get to see his face until I was up there! I wish we could have had an intimate moment where it was just us, where I could’ve seen his reaction, & we could have had a few minutes together to take a breath & just be before the chaos of the day.
- Sticking With Tradition -
There is absolutely nothing wrong with choosing this option! I know that people still do & they have great experiences with it! Waiting to see your love at the altar is timeless & classic. There are a few things you should keep in mind though! Make sure your timeline allows for all the photos to be taken immediately following the ceremony, which can take anywhere from 1-2 hours. Also, if you’re having an outdoor wedding, or want photos taken outside, be sure to check when sunset is so we make sure there is enough light for all those photos!
Plus, you can always opt-in for a First Look with your bridesmaids, parents, siblings, or close friends! Those make for some pretty touching photos too!
- First Touch -
If you’re on the fence about a First Look or sticking with tradition, maybe a First Touch is right for you. What is it? It’s a little bit like a First look, except you’re not seeing each other. You can be back-to-back or on either side of a wall or door & hold hands. Sometimes couples exchange gifts or notes during this time. Some couples choose to read their vows to each other because it’s a more intimate setting where they are able to really express their emotions. Just like a First Look, this option can help calm each other’s nerves by having a few minutes to just breathe & be together before the ceremony. But like the traditional route, all the portraits will have to be done after the ceremony.
Honestly, whether you choose a First Look, First Touch, or the traditional route, you can’t go wrong! It’s YOUR day, so you do you! I will be there to capture it & support you with whatever option you choose.
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